Get Happy!

We are certainly in some tough times these days. These are the days when we have to dig down deep and find special things to make us happy.  No one else is going to do that for you, by the way!  One thing that makes me happy is shopping. Crazy to say, right? Who has money these days for shopping?? Well, I certainly don't, but I do have the will power to walk through a store and not buy a thing.

Years ago, I had no will power, but I also had access to more savings. Now shopping is more like dieting. I peruse the menu, have a spoonful to try one or two things, and then go home and make dinner out of my refrigerator.  The same concept can be mimicked when shopping.  Savor the enjoyment of walking through the store or boutique, and try on as many items as you like. Even if you cannot live without something, put it back on the rack and walk away. Nine times out of ten, you will forget about it, or decide that you definitely do not need it, and you will successfully leave the premises with no bag in tow.

Don't worry, times WILL get better. Our economy is designed to remedy itself, and this will eventually happen. We will all be able to once again afford those little gifts we give ourselves.  A new cocktail dress (because you certainly can't wear the same one AGAIN), that great pair of shoes you've been eyeing for weeks, or the fantastic piece of jewelry that you so deserve but just can't justify buying for a while.

For now, revel in the fact that you can still shop and that you have the POWER to abstain from purchasing!! Use this time to try on clothes to gain a better understanding and to refine your style and what works for you.  When the market does finally rebound, you will be equipped with a more defined style that allows you to know exactly what works so you can save time and money.